| Living with
Roommates
Most flats are shared which means that you may be sharing
a kitchen and bathroom with 3-4 other people. In addition,
you may be bringing a friend or hoping to meet up with someone
to share a twin.
Since most of us have been living on our own, or at least
in our own room, for quite a while now it may be difficult
to have to share some personal space and give up some privacy.
We have put together a few ideas for students who are going
to live with someone for perhaps the first time.
1. Get to know your flatmates. You will meet
people from all over the world so here is a chance to learn
something new and just have a laugh. Go out for a pint up
in Camden Town, go grocery shopping at Safeway together or
watch some English television. The more you get to know your
flatmates the more you are aware of their habits and their
pet peeves and they are more aware of yours.
2. BE CONSIDERATE. The golden rules apply here:
do onto others as you would want them to do onto you. Treat
your roommates and flatmates well and they will return the
favour!
3. Always respect the privacy of your flatmate/roommate.
Give people space.
4. If there is a problem within the flat deal
with it straight away. The more you let it fester, the angrier
you will become and it may result in a confrontation that
you meant to avoid. Communication is key. you can also refer
the problem to your landlord area manager (manager in charge
of your flat).
Sit down with your flatmate (roommate), stay
calm and state exactly what the problem is, emphasizing that
it is the behavior and not the person that is causing the
problem. You will want to avoid attacking the person because
then they become defensive. If required, use a neutral third
party as a mediator.
5. With your roommate, set up guidelines for
sharing. How does your roommate feel about loaning his or
her possessions? Some roommates do not mind, others do. Find
out and make sure your roommate knows how you feel, as well.
6. Find out some background about your roommate
(friends, family, hobbies), his/her likes and dislikes, things
that you both need to know (sleeping habits, beliefs about
drinking etc) and how they react to certain situations.
7. The best way to avoid people using your food
is to keep it in your room and not in the kitchen. Some people
might leave it alone but others think it is alright to borrow
your food on occasion.
8. Take your turn in buying the toilet paper.
9. Since the phone line is shared usually try
not to use the phone for too long and ask friend and family
not to call at very late hours.
10. Remember that there are other people in
the flat when you are up for work at 0600 (or you might be
stumbling in from a night out at this time). Try to keep the
noise level down after 2300 and before 0800. This includes
your music and your television.
11. Fun tip: Have a dinner party! Each flatmate
can be responsible for a specific task (buying wine, making
the salad etc). Afterwards (and after a few glasses of wine)
everyone can go out to a club in Central London. Don't forget
to take pictures.
Opening a Bank Account
Opening a bank account in England is not easy but it can be
done!
Due to the high occurrence of fraud, banks are tightening
applications for new accounts. You will usually need to present
proof of identity (usually a passport), a letter of reference
from your bank at home, proof of current address (such as
a gas bill, phone bill or letter from your landlord.. if
you are staying with students-lodging, we provide this letter
as part of our service), and proof of employment. Most
employment agencies will give you a letter to state that you
are working for them and you can present this letter at the
bank.
Some banks are more lenient than other banks, so it is best
to go to several different banks, or bank branches. Usually
the smaller banks and building societies are more welcoming
to new accounts, but the larger ones can sometimes offer more
services. The major banks include Lloyds, Midland, Nat West,
Barclays and the Bank of Scotland.
The two most common types of accounts to open are either
a savings or a cheque (current) account. You should obtain
an ATM card with your savings account so you can withdraw
your money at anytime. You might want to check if this ATM
card is accepted in Europe as well, as that is a good way
to travel without carrying cash. With a cheque account, you
will need a cheque guarantee card with a fixed limit. This
is to be produced when you are paying for goods by cheque
and guarantees your account can cover any cheques you have
written.
You can also open an account with a British bank before you
come over to England. You will have to contact your bank to
see if they can help here. In some countries, Thomas Cook
can offer this service.
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